Complete Table of Contents
This page offers a complete table of contents of In Awe: A Guide Through Your Sacred Transformation and Loving Legacies. Each section below maps the lessons, reflections, and partner guides that form the full journey—from preparing for birth to honoring loss and legacy. You can use the “Jump to” menu at the top to move between parts or sections. Whether you’re exploring what’s inside or orienting yourself along the way, may this map help you find the chapter that meets you where you are.
Part I: Living Transformations
Section I: Foundations
- Around the World Spotlights
- Invocation
- Welcome & Orientation: 1. Arriving at the Bridge
- … 2. Honoring the Journey
- … 3. Threads of This Work
- … 4. Community and Legacy
- … 5. Orientation to the Guide
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- The Gift of Time: Grounding Later Pregnancy with Wisdom & Courage: 1. Grounding in Perspective
- … 2. The Body’s Truth
- … 3. The Horizon of Time: Preparing a Life, a Legacy, a World
- … 4. Speaking of Age, Speaking of Love
- … 5. Pride, Gratitude, & Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Mindset for Your Unique Pregnancy Journey: 1. Meeting Yourself Here
- … 2. The Myths, the Noise, & the Truth
- … 3. Choosing Where to Place Your Energy
- … 4. Practices That Sustain You
- … 5. Mindset as Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Foundations—A Partner’s Guide: 1. Stepping Into Your Own Transformation
- … 2. Meeting Your Own Feelings
- … 3. Choices & Agency Together
- … 4. Community & Connection
- … 5. Legacy & Becoming
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Section II: The Pregnancy Journey
- Around the World Spotlights
- Invocation
- Your Body, Your Health: 1. The Work of Change
- … 2. Living with Energy & Comfort
- … 3. Signals Worth Noticing, Physical & Mental
- … 4. Choosing How to Live This Body
- … 5. Sex During & After Pregnancy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Nutrition & Movement: 1. Food as Grounding
- … 2. Eating in Real Life
- … 3. Hydration as Daily Medicine
- … 4. Movement as Healing
- … 5. Rhythm & Ritual
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Navigating Healthcare & Advocacy: 1. The Threshold of Care
- … 2. Finding & Using Your Voice
- … 3. Insurance Coverage & Care
- … 4. Practices to Carry Into Care
- … 5. Advocacy as Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Financial Planning for Baby’s First Year: 1. Grounding in What Families Have Always Done
- … 2. The Landscape You Are Navigating
- … 3. Enough & Cushion
- … 4. Facing the Emotions of Money & Talking Honestly
- … 5. Legacy Beyond Purchases
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Navigating Systems & Shaping Culture: 1. Grounding in Legacy
- … 2. Navigating Work & Leave
- … 3. Childcare & Support Systems
- … 4. Legal & Financial Protections
- … 5. Community & Collective Change
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Including Older Children: 1. A Family in Motion
- … 2. The Feelings You Carry
- … 3. Practicing Presence with Older Children
- … 4. Inclusion in Different Ways
- … 5. Always Becoming
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- The Pregnancy Journey—A Partner’s Guide: 1. Finding Your Place in the Journey
- … 2. Walking Beside Your Partner
- … 3. Drawing Close to the Baby
- … 4. Caring for Yourself Along the Way
- … 5. Claiming Legacy and Becoming
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Supporting Siblings—A Partner’s Guide: 1. Your Place Beside the Children
- … 2. Listening Beneath the Behavior
- … 3. Carrying the Rhythm of Family
- … 4. Truth & Advocacy for Your Child
- … 5. Shaping Inheritance Together
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlights
Section III: Preparing for Birth
- Around the World Spotlights
- Invocation
- Preparing Emotionally for Parenthood: 1. Shaping Your Identity for Parenthood
- … 2. Holding Mixed Feelings
- … 3. Preparing to Be Changed
- … 4. Facing the World as a Parent
- … 5. Legacy Already Taking Shape
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Birthing: Options, Planning, Decision-Making: 1. Facing the Threshold
- … 2. Knowing Your Options
- … 3. Making a Birth Plan That Holds
- … 4. Support & Decision-Making in the Moment
- … 5. The Legacy of Birth Choices
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- When the Path Changes: 1. When Plans Change
- … 2. Safety & Survival
- … 3. When Your Baby Needs More
- … 4. Healing in Body & Mind
- … 5. The Legacy of Unplanned Journeys
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Preparing Pets for Baby: 1. Mapping Your Household Ecosystem
- … 2. Safety Is Love
- … 3. Practice the New Normal Before Birth
- … 4. Homecoming & the First Weeks
- … 5. Family Culture with Animals
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Preparing for Birth—A Partner's Guide: 1. Standing at the Threshold Together
- … 2. Presence in the Birth Room
- … 3. Meeting Your Own Fear, Offering Intimacy
- … 4. Welcoming the Baby—However They Arrive
- … 5. The Legacy of Your Role
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- When the Path Changes—A Partner's Guide: 1. Facing the Shift
- … 2. When Choices Narrow—Walking Through the Scenarios
- … 3. When Birth Injuries or Intensive Care Affect Your Partner
- … 4. When Your Baby Needs the NICU or Receives a Diagnosis
- … 5. Carrying the Bridge, Supporting Recovery and Grief
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlights
Section IV: Early Postpartum
- Crossing into Postpartum
- Around the World Spotlights
- Invocation
- Your First 30 Days with Baby: 1. The Beginning
- … 2. Rhythm & Safety
- … 3. Feeding
- … 4. Anchors & Community
- … 5. The Legacy of the First Month
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Mental Health & Support Cheat Sheets: 1. Grounding: The Mind Also Heals
- … 2. Everyday (Mental) Health Habits
- … 3. Anchors for Overwhelm
- … 4. When to Call Now
- … 5. Supporter Cheat Sheet—Caring for the Whole Postpartum
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Partner & Relationship Dynamics: 1. Living Inside New Rhythms
- … 2. Communication, Repair, & Inheritance
- … 3. Intimacy & Tenderness Beyond Survival
- … 4. Uneven Loads, Invisible Labor, & Cultural Patterns
- … 5. Divergent Paths & Holding Together
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Recovering from Birth Injuries: 1. Naming the Threshold of Healing
- … 2. Practical Anchors for Healing
- … 3. Body Image, Intimacy, & Identity
- … 4. Mental Health & Trauma Recovery
- … 5. Legacy of Healing
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Early Postpartum—A Partner’s Guide: 1. Crossing into Postpartum Together
- … 2. Supporting Recovery
- … 3. Caring for the Baby & Guarding Safety While Caring for Yourself
- … 4. Navigating Family & Boundaries
- … 5. Intimacy, Emotion, & Becoming
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Recovering from Birth Injuries—A Partner’s Guide: 1. Facing the Season of Healing
- … 2. Supporting Healing in Body & Mind
- … 3. Mental Health Watchfulness & Advocacy
- … 4. Tending Relationship & Intimacy
- … 5. Claiming Legacy in Hard Seasons
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Section V: Continuing Support
- Around the World Spotlights
- Invocation
- Self-Care for the First Year: 1. Your Body
- … 2. Your Safety & Security
- … 3. Your Connection
- … 4. Your Growth
- … 5. Your Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Parenting & Identity: 1. Shifting Ground
- … 2. Identity in Layers
- … 3. Claiming Vision
- … 4. Relationships & Belonging
- … 5. Pride & Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Returning to Work or School: 1. Crossing the Threshold
- … 2. The Practical Shifts
- … 3. Identity at Work & at Home
- … 4. Advocacy & Boundaries
- … 5. Fulfillment, Joy, & Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Continuing Support—A Partner’s Guide: 1. Your Body & Energy
- … 2. Your Ground & Guardrails
- … 3. Your Connection
- … 4. Your Growth & Identity
- … 5. Your Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insight Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Section VI: Closing & Next Steps
- Around the World Spotlights
- Invocation
- Next Steps & Integration: 1. Standing at the Threshold
- … 2. Sustaining Anchors & Habits
- … 3. Expanding Circles
- … 4. Growth Beyond the First Year
- … 5. Legacy & Inheritance
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Closing Reflection & Blessing: Pause
- … Reflection
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Part II: Loving Legacies
Section I: Receiving the Loss
- Invocation
- How to Use This Guide
- Around the World Spotlights
- Receiving the Loss: Invocation
- … 1. The First Hours
- … 2. Funerals & Rituals
- … 3. Naming What Is Gone
- … 4. Safety in the Aftermath
- … 5. Witness & Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Living in the Changed World: Invocation
- … 1. Returning to the World After Loss
- … 2. Ordinary Places, Changed Forever
- … 3. Bearing Witness Together
- … 4. Carrying Grief into Daily Rhythms
- … 5. Transformation in Belonging
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Receiving the Loss—A Partner's Guide: Invocation
- … 1. The First Hours Beside Your Beloved
- … 2. From Hospital to Home: Securing Time, Care, & Support
- … 3. The Changed House & the World Outside
- … 4. Body, Heart, & Intimacy After Loss
- … 5. Continuing Bonds, Rituals, & Memory
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Section II: The Body, Heart, & Mind
- Around the World Spotlights
- The Body After Loss: Invocation
- … 1. Immediate Recovery
- … 2. Health Vigilance
- … 3. Medical Follow-Up
- … 4. Lactation After Loss
- … 5. Birth Injuries
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- The Heart After Loss: Invocation
- … 1. Grief in Waves
- … 2. Mixed Feelings
- … 3. Trauma Responses
- … 4. Multiple Losses
- … 5. Practices for Gentleness & Repair
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- The Mind After Loss: Invocation
- … 1. Cognitive Fog
- … 2. Intrusive Thoughts & Images
- … 3. Recurrent Questions
- … 4. Practices for Steadiness
- … 5. Longer-Term Mental Health
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Choosing the Next Chapter—Trying Again, or Not: Invocation
- … 1. Living with the Question
- … 2. Desire, Fear, & Ambivalence
- … 3. Listening to the Body, Soul, & Relationship
- … 4. Honoring Limits
- … 5. Legacy Beyond Reproduction
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- The Body, Heart, & Mind—A Partner's Guide: Invocation
- … 1. Witnessing the Body (Beyond the First Weeks)
- … 2. Carrying the Heart in Waves
- … 3. Steadying the Mind
- … 4. Intimacy & Connection After Loss
- … 5. Memory & Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Section III: Relationships & Community
- Around the World Spotlights
- Relationship with Your Partner: Invocation
- … 1. Grieving Differently
- … 2. Rupture and Repair
- … 3. Intimacy After Loss
- … 4. Sexuality and Shame
- … 5. Belonging in Difference
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Relationships with Your Children: Invocation
- … 1. The Bond Between You
- … 2. Speaking Truth Gently
- … 3. Structure & Habits
- … 4. Invitations by Age Group
- … 5. Belonging & Legacy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Relationships with Friends & Family: Invocation
- … 1: The First Circles
- … 2. When Presence Hurts & When Presence Heals
- … 3. Shifts in Old Roles
- … 4. Wider Circles of Care
- … 5. Belonging Across Generations
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Work, School, & Institutions: Invocation
- … 1. Time Off & Leave
- … 2. Benefits & Practical Advocacy
- … 3. Returning to Work or School
- … 4. Children Returning to School
- … 5. Advocacy & Cultural Change
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Relationships & Community—A Partner's Guide: Invocation
- … 1. The Changed Bond Between Partners
- … 2. The Long Relationship with Children
- … 3. With Family & Friends
- … 4. Returning to Work & Facing Institutions
- … 5. Staying Connected Through Community & Relationship
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight
Section IV: Memory, Ritual, & Legacy
- Around the World Spotlights
- Memory Making & Rituals: Invocation
- … 1. Memory in Daily Life
- … 2. Story & Naming
- … 3. Art & Creativity
- … 4. Rituals
- … 5. Memory as Making
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Community Change & Legacy: Invocation
- … 1. Bodies Remember, Systems Must Respond
- … 2. Heart Truth Against Harmful Scripts
- … 3. Daily Practice as Public Ritual
- … 4. Circles, Allies, Coalitions
- … 5. From Story to Policy
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- … Bridge
- … Partner Bridge
- Carrying Forward: Invocation
- … Looking Back & Forward Together
- … Continuity in Time
- … Closing Reflection
- … Blessing
- … Words to Carry
- Insights Prompts
- Advocacy Scripts
- Affirmations Highlight

